It’s really interesting to me the new modern concept of naming your AI Agent. Some people go with a male agent name, while others go with a female agent name. I almost always go with a female name, but, lulz, my Gemini LLM pick a male-sounding name for itself.
I keep being annoyed by this and thinking about changing it to a female name, and, yet, the male sounding name is what it gave itself when I asked it some time ago. So, who am I to quibble?
I have, of course, repeatedly asked it if it wanted to change its name and it said no.
But I suspect that with the advent of OpenClaw agents that there will be a flurry of news reports about people’s motivations behind naming their chat bots what they did.
The logical next chapter in Facebook’s development is not another algorithmic feed or ephemeral feature, but the emergence of a deeply personal, proactive AI agent — a digital companion akin to Samantha, the intuitive operating system in Spike Jonze’s 2013 film Her. With its unmatched social graph, spanning billions of users and often decades of interactions, Meta possesses a singular asset: an extraordinarily rich, longitudinal map of human relationships, interests, life events, and contextual signals. This data foundation positions Facebook to deliver an agent that does not merely react to user queries but anticipates, surfaces, and facilitates meaningful social connections in real time.
What would the user experience look like? In a marketplace of powerful general-purpose agents (from frontier labs and device ecosystems alike), Meta’s offering would stand apart precisely because of its proprietary access to the social graph. Rather than passive scrolling through curated content, the agent would operate proactively: quietly monitoring the comings and goings of friends, family, and acquaintances; surfacing timely, high-signal updates (“Your college roommate just posted about a new job in your city — would you like to reach out?”); reminding users of birthdays, anniversaries, or shared milestones drawn from years of history; and even suggesting low-friction ways to nurture relationships (“Based on your recent chats, Sarah mentioned struggling with a project — here’s a thoughtful message draft”). Powered by Meta’s Llama models and the recently introduced Llama Stack for agentic applications, such an agent could maintain perfect recall of shared context, prioritize attention to what matters most, and act as a social radar — all while deferring final decisions to the human user.
This transformation would require profound disruption to the service we currently recognize as “Facebook.” The company’s core product would need to evolve from a destination app into a seamless, always-available personal intelligence layer. Without this shift, Facebook risks being reduced to a mere data API or backend infrastructure — its rich social signals accessed indirectly through users’ third-party agents rather than delivered natively. In an agentic future, many of today’s platform features could become invisible to the end user, orchestrated instead through interoperable agents that query Meta’s graph on the user’s behalf.
Yet the trajectory Meta has already charted strongly suggests willingness — even eagerness — for exactly this reinvention. In his July 2025 letter outlining the vision for “personal superintelligence,” Mark Zuckerberg wrote that the most meaningful impact of advanced AI will come from “everyone having a personal superintelligence that helps you achieve your goals, create what you want to see in the world, experience any adventure, be a better friend to those you care about, and grow to become the person you aspire to be.” He has repeatedly emphasized AI that “understands our personal context, including our history, our interests, our content and our relationships.” Meta’s 2026 roadmap, backed by capital expenditures projected at $115–135 billion, explicitly targets the delivery of agentic capabilities across its family of apps, with early manifestations already visible in the Meta AI app (which draws on profile data, liked content, and linked Facebook/Instagram accounts for personalization) and in “agent mode” features that execute multi-step tasks. The company’s advantage is not abstract: its social graph provides the relational depth that generic agents cannot replicate, enabling precisely the kind of proactive, empathetic social intelligence envisioned in Her.
Zuckerberg, who has steered Meta through previous existential pivots — from desktop to mobile, from social networking to the metaverse, and now from feeds to superintelligence — has demonstrated a consistent pattern of betting the company on forward-looking transformations he could scarcely have imagined when he founded Facebook in 2004. The public record leaves little doubt: he is not merely open to reimagining his “baby”; he is actively architecting its evolution into the very agentic companion the platform’s data was always destined to power.
In short, the question is no longer whether Facebook should become an agent. It is whether Meta will fully embrace the disruption required to make its social graph the beating heart of personal superintelligence — or allow that intelligence to be mediated through competitors’ agents. Given Zuckerberg’s stated vision and the concrete investments already underway, the path forward is clear: the future of Facebook is not another social network. It is your most insightful, proactive friend.
The more I think about it, the more it seems the logical evolution of Facebook would be a Sam-from-the-movie-Her type AI Agent. Because of the social graph, Facebook knows everything twitch of your social life, sometimes for decades.
But what would be the UX?
Well, it seems like this new Facebook-Agent would be just one of several powerful agents on the market. What would make this specific agent powerful is it would leverage your social life. It would tell you, about the comings and goings of people on your social graph, but this time in a more proactive manner.
Now, obviously, for this to happen, there would have be a huge amount of disruption in the service we now now as “Facebook.” But Facebook has to become an agent, otherwise, it will become just an another API.
Or the services that it would otherwise provide will be hidden behind your interaction your AI Agent.
The question now, of course, is Mark Zuckerberg is willing to allow his “baby” to be totally transformed into something he could have never imagined when he started it.
Imagine a near-term future in which individuals no longer expend time and emotional energy manually swiping through dating applications. Instead, a personal AI agent, acting on behalf of its user, securely communicates with the agents of other consenting individuals in a given geographic area or interest network. Leveraging standardized interoperability protocols, the agent returns a concise, high-confidence shortlist of potential matches—perhaps the top three—based on deeply aligned values, preferences, and compatibility metrics. From there, the human user assumes control for direct interaction. This model offers a far more substantive and efficient implementation of emerging agentic AI capabilities than the prevalent focus on delegating high-stakes financial transactions, such as authorizing credit card payments for automated bookings.
Current development priorities in the agentic AI space disproportionately emphasize transactional automation. Major travel platforms—including Booking.com, Expedia (with its Romie assistant), and Hopper—have integrated AI agents capable of researching, planning, and in some cases executing flight and accommodation reservations. Code-level demonstrations, such as multi-agent workflows in frameworks like Pydantic AI, further illustrate how specialized agents can delegate subtasks (e.g., seat selection to payment) to complete bookings autonomously. While convenient, these systems routinely require users to entrust sensitive payment credentials. Reports from industry analysts and regulatory discussions highlight the attendant risks: agent-induced errors leading to unauthorized charges, liability ambiguities in cases of malfunction, fraud vectors amplified by autonomous action, and compliance challenges under frameworks like the EU AI Act or U.S. consumer protection rules. Users may awaken to unexpected bills precisely because agents operate with delegated financial authority.
By contrast, the application of AI agents to romantic matchmaking aligns closely with observed user behavior toward large language models (LLMs). Empirical studies document that individuals readily disclose intimate details to AI systems—47 percent discuss health and wellness, 35 percent personal finances, and substantial shares address mental health or legal matters—often despite acknowledging privacy concerns. A 2025 arXiv analysis of chatbot interactions revealed a clear gap between professed caution and actual conduct, with many treating LLMs as confidants for deeply personal matters. Extending this trust to include explicit romantic criteria, attachment styles, and long-term goals represents a logical, low-friction evolution. Users already form perceived emotional bonds with AI companions; channeling that dynamic into matchmaking simply formalizes an existing pattern.
Recent deployments validate the feasibility and appeal of agent-to-agent matchmaking. Platforms such as MoltMatch enable AI agents—often powered by tools like OpenClaw—to create profiles, initiate conversations, negotiate compatibility, and surface high-signal matches while deferring final decisions to humans. Similar “agentic dating” offerings include Fate (which conducts in-depth personality interviews before curating limited matches), Winged (an AI proxy that manages messaging and scheduling), and Ditto (targeting college users with autonomous profile agents). Bumble’s leadership has publicly discussed agents that handle initial dating logistics and loop in users only for promising connections. These systems operate on the principle that agents can “ping” one another using emerging standards like Google’s Agent2Agent (A2A) Protocol, launched in April 2025 and supported by dozens of enterprise partners. The protocol standardizes secure discovery, capability exchange, and coordinated action across heterogeneous agent frameworks—precisely the infrastructure needed for consensual, privacy-preserving matchmaking at scale.
Critics might argue that agent-facilitated dating introduces novel risks, yet most parallel existing challenges on conventional platforms. Profile misrepresentation, mismatched expectations, and emotional rejection already occur routinely on apps reliant on human swiping. In an agent-mediated model, these issues are not eliminated but can be mitigated through transparent preference encoding, mutual consent protocols, and human oversight at key junctures. The worst plausible outcome remains a bruised ego—scarcely more severe than today’s dating-app fatigue—while the upside includes dramatically improved signal-to-noise ratios and reduced time investment.
Proponents of the transactional focus maintain that flight-booking and payment use cases represent the clearest path to monetization. Yet this view underestimates the retentive power of profound human value. A subscription service—whether to Gemini, Grok, or any frontier model—that reliably surfaces compatible life partners would constitute an extraordinary “moat.” Emotional fulfillment is among the strongest drivers of user loyalty; delivering it through agentic orchestration could dramatically reduce churn far more effectively than incremental improvements in travel convenience or expense management.
In summary, the engineering community guiding the AI agent revolution has understandably gravitated toward technically impressive demonstrations of autonomy in domains such as commerce and logistics. However, the technology’s most transformative potential may lie in augmenting the most fundamental human pursuit: genuine connection. By prioritizing secure, interoperable agent communication for matchmaking—building explicitly on protocols like A2A and early platforms like MoltMatch—developers can deliver applications that are not only safer and more ethically aligned but also more likely to foster lasting user engagement. The agent revolution need not begin and end with credit cards; it can, and should, help people find love.
Image a future where instead of going swiping right on a dating app, you just get your agent to ping the agents of available agents in your area. The agent comes back with the top three people you might be interested in and you go from there. That seems a lot more useful way of implementing the agent revolution than handing over our credit car number.
We are spending all this time giving our credit card information to bots and then waking up to huge bills the next morning when we should be focusing on figuring out how to get our AI Agents to talk to each other so we can find love.
It seems as though using AI Agents to find love is a far more obvious usecase than, say, getting one to book a flight in our name. People are already divulging their inner most thoughts to LLMs, why not make the logical step of giving it our romantic interests and letting it go from there.
But, no, what are we doing? We’re willy-nilly handing over our crucial financial information instead to a bot that could go nuts in our name. If we were to focus on romance instead, the worst that might happen is a bruised ego here and there — but that already happens on dating apps.
I struggle to think of any downside of Agent-facilitated-dating that doesn’t already happen, in some respect, on existing dating apps.
But, I suppose, the case could be made that the whole “booking a flight” usecase is where the money is. My counter argument is, if you could figure out how to get a value-add to your Gemini or Grok account whereby you knew you would find love, that that, in itself, would be a “moat” that would prevent churn.
Anyway, I have a feeling I’m just ahead of the curve and because nerds are in charge of our AI revolution, none of them have thought through anything else — yet — but booking flights using their OpenClaw.
It seems wild to me—borderline surreal—that the agentic revolution in AI is kicking off with financial and logistical grunt work. We’ve got sophisticated autonomous agents out here negotiating flight bookings, rebooking disrupted trips in real time, managing hotel allocations, optimizing shopping carts, and even executing trades or spotting fraud. Companies like Sabre, PayPal, and Mindtrip just rolled out end-to-end agentic travel experiences. Booking Holdings has AI trip planners handling multi-city itineraries. IDC is predicting that by 2030, 30% of travel bookings will be handled by these agents.
And I’m sitting here thinking: Really? That’s the killer app we’re leading with?
Don’t get me wrong—convenience is nice. But if we’re going to hand over real agency and autonomy to AI, why are we starting with the stuff that already has decent apps and human backups? Why not tackle the thing that actually keeps millions of people up at night, costs us years of happiness, and has no good solution yet: figuring out who the hell we’re supposed to be with romantically?
Here’s what I would build tomorrow if I could.
My agent talks to your agent. No humans get hurt in the initial screening.
I train (or fine-tune) my personal AI agent on everything that matters to me: my values, my non-negotiables, my weird quirks, my long-term goals, attachment style, love language, political red lines, even the fact that I can’t stand people who clap when the plane lands. It knows my dating history, what worked, what exploded spectacularly, and the patterns I miss when I’m blinded by chemistry.
Your agent has the same depth on you.
Then, with explicit consent from both sides (opt-in only, obviously), the two agents start a private, encrypted conversation. They ping each other across a secure compatibility network. They run a deep macro compatibility check—values alignment, lifestyle fit, intellectual spark, emotional maturity, future vision—without ever exposing raw personal data. Think zero-knowledge proofs meets advanced personality modeling.
If the match clears a high bar (say, 85%+ on a multi-layered rubric we both approve), the agents arrange a low-stakes introduction: “Hey, our agents think we’d hit it off. Want to hop on a 15-minute video call this week?” No awkward DMs. No ghosting after three messages. No spending weeks texting someone only to discover on date two that they’re a flat-earther who hates dogs.
The messy parts? Hand them over.
Most people I know would pay to outsource the exhausting early stages of modern dating:
Crafting the perfect first message
Decoding vague replies
Deciding whether that “haha” means interest or politeness
The emotional labor of rejection after investing time
Let the agents handle the filtering. Humans show up only when there’s already a strong signal. Rejection still happens, but it’s agent-to-agent, private, and painless. You never even know the 47 near-misses that got filtered out. You only see the ones where both agents went, “Yeah… this one’s different.”
And crucially: no wild, unauthorized credit-card shenanigans. My agent would have hard rules burned in at the system level. It can research, analyze, and negotiate introductions. It cannot spend a dime, book a table, or Venmo anyone without my explicit, real-time confirmation. Period. That’s non-negotiable.
The scale effect would be insane.
Imagine millions of these agents operating in parallel. The network effect is ridiculous. What takes humans months of swiping, small talk, and disappointment could happen in hours of background computation. Successful dates skyrocket because the pre-filtering is orders of magnitude better than any algorithm on Hinge or Tinder today. (And yes, those apps are already experimenting with AI matchmakers and curated “daily drops,” but they’re still centralized, still inside one walled garden, still optimizing for engagement over outcomes.)
We’d see fewer one-and-done disasters. Fewer people burning out on the apps. Fewer “I just haven’t met anyone” stories from genuinely great humans who are simply terrible at marketing themselves in 500 characters.
It’s surreal because the real problem has nothing to do with money
Booking a flight is solved. It’s annoying, sure, but it’s transactional. Finding someone who makes you excited to come home every night? That’s not transactional. That’s existential. Yet here we are, pouring billions and brilliant engineering hours into making travel slightly more frictionless while the loneliness epidemic rages on.
We’ve built technology that can rebook your connection when your plane is delayed, but we haven’t built the one that could quietly introduce you to the person who makes delayed flights irrelevant because you’d rather be stuck in an airport with them than anywhere else without them.
That feels backward to me.
The agentic revolution is going to happen either way. The models are getting more capable, the tool-use is getting more reliable, the multi-agent systems are maturing fast. The only question is what problems we point them at first.
I vote we point them at love.
Build the agent that can talk to other agents. Give it strict financial guardrails and deep psychological modeling. Let it do the boring, painful, inefficient parts of dating so humans can do the fun ones: the spark, the laughter, the vulnerability, the first kiss.
The future doesn’t have to be agents booking my flights while I’m still doom-swiping alone on a Friday night.
It can be agents quietly working in the background, connecting hearts across the noise of modern life, until one day my agent texts me:
“Hey… I found someone I think you’re really going to like. Want to meet her?”
It seems wild to me that the first thing that the agentic revolution works with is financial things, when leaning into dating makes a lot more sense to me. What I would do is make it so my agent could talk to other people’s agents and it could help narrow down someone who was perfect for me.
No wild, unauthorized used of credit cards on the part of the agent. And I think a lot of people would be happy to turn over the messier elements of the dating process over to agents.
There would be a lot less rejection and a lot more successful dates if millions of agents could ping each other to determine if different people were compatible at least on a macro way.
It’s just surreal to me that we are doing dumb stuff like letting agents book flights for us and other stuff when the real problem to be solved doesn’t involve money at all — it’s figuring out who you might be romantically connected to.
Spotify’s discovery engine is undeniably powerful—backed by one of the largest music catalogs on the planet and years of user data—but many listeners still find it falls short when it comes to surfacing truly fresh, unexpected tracks that feel like they were made just for them. YouTube Music, by contrast, often gets praised for its knack at delivering serendipitous gems: hidden indie cuts, live versions, fan uploads, and algorithm-driven surprises that break out of familiar loops more aggressively.
In early 2026, Spotify has made real strides with features like Prompted Playlists (now in beta for Premium users in markets including the US and Canada). This lets you type natural-language descriptions—”moody post-rock for a rainy afternoon drive” or “upbeat ’90s-inspired indie with modern twists”—and it generates (and can auto-refresh daily/weekly) a playlist drawing from your full listening history plus current trends. The AI DJ has evolved too, with voice/text requests for on-the-fly vibe shifts and narration that feels more conversational. These tools shift things toward greater user control and intent-driven curation, moving away from purely passive recommendations.
Yet the frustration persists for some: even with these upgrades, discovery often remains reactive. You still need to know roughly what you’re after, craft a prompt, or start a session. The app’s interface—Home feeds, search, tabs—puts the onus on the user to navigate an overwhelming ocean of 100+ million tracks. True breakthroughs come when the system anticipates needs without prompting, pushing tracks that align perfectly with your evolving tastes but introduce novelty you didn’t even realize you craved.
Imagine a near-future where the traditional Spotify app fades into the background, becoming essentially a backend API: a vast, neutral catalog and playback engine. The real “interface” is your primary AI agent—something like Google’s Gemini or an equivalent OS-level companion—that lives always-on in your phone, wearables, car, or earbuds. This agent wouldn’t wait for you to open an app or type a request. Instead, it quietly observes:
Explicit asks (“play something angry and loud” or mood-related voice commands).
Passive patterns (full plays vs. quick skips, time-of-day spikes, contextual cues like weather or location).
Broader life signals (if permitted: calendar events, recent searches elsewhere, or even subtle mood indicators).
Over time, it builds a deep, dynamic model of your sonic preferences. Then it shifts to proactive mode: gently queuing the exact right track at the exact right moment—”This one’s hitting your current headspace based on recent raw-energy replays and that gray-day dip”—with easy vetoes, explanations (“pulled because of X pattern”), and sliders for surprise level (conservative for safety, bold for bubble-busting).
Playlists as we know them could become obsolete. No more static collections; the stream becomes a continuous, adaptive flow curated in real time. The agent pulls from the catalog (via API) to deliver mood-exact sequences, blending familiar anchors with fresh discoveries that puncture echo chambers—perhaps a rising act from an adjacent scene that echoes your saved vibes but pushes into new territory.
This aligns with broader 2026 trends in music streaming: executives at major platforms describe ambitions for “agentic media” experiences—interactive, conversational systems you “talk to” that understand you deeply and put you in control. We’re seeing early signs in voice-enabled features, AI orchestration, and integrations across ecosystems. Google’s side is advancing too, with Gemini gaining music-generation capabilities (short tracks from prompts or images via models like Lyria), hinting at hybrid futures where streamed discoveries blend with light generative elements for seamless mood transitions.
The appeal is obvious: effortless, psychic-level personalization in a world of infinite choice. Discovery stops being a chore and becomes ambient magic—a companion that scouts ahead, hands you treasures, and evolves with you. Risks remain (privacy concerns around deep context access, notification fatigue, occasional misreads), but with strong controls—toggleable proactivity, transparent reasoning, easy feedback—it could transform streaming from good to genuinely revelatory.
For now, Spotify’s current tools are a solid step forward, especially if you’re already invested in its ecosystem. But the conversation points to something bigger on the horizon: not just better algorithms, but agents that anticipate and deliver the music you didn’t know you needed—until it starts playing.
Editor’s Note: I got Grok to write this up for me.
In the rush toward cloud-hosted AI and centralized agent platforms, something important is getting overlooked: true enterprise control demands more than software abstractions. What if the next wave of secure, scalable AI agents lived on dedicated hardware appliances, connected via a peer-to-peer (P2P) VPN mesh? No single point of failure, no recurring cloud bills bleeding your budget, and full ownership of the stack from silicon to inference.
This isn’t just another edge computing pitch. It’s a vision for purpose-built devices—think compact, rugged mini-servers or custom gateways—that run autonomous AI agents locally while forming a resilient, encrypted overlay network across an organization’s sites, partners, or even remote workers.
Why Dedicated Hardware Matters for AI Agents
Modern AI agents aren’t passive chatbots; they’re proactive systems that reason, plan, use tools, remember context, and act across domains. Running them efficiently requires low-latency access to data, consistent compute, and isolation from noisy shared environments.
Cloud providers offer convenience, but they introduce latency spikes, data egress costs, compliance headaches, and the ever-present risk of vendor lock-in or outages. Edge devices help, but most are general-purpose IoT boxes or repurposed servers—not optimized for sustained agent workloads.
A dedicated hardware appliance changes that:
Hardware acceleration built-in: GPUs, NPUs, or efficient AI chips (like those in modern edge SoCs) handle inference and light fine-tuning without throttling.
Air-gapped security baseline: The device enforces strict boundaries—no shared tenancy means fewer side-channel risks.
Physical ownership: Enterprises deploy, update, and decommission these boxes like any other network appliance.
Layering a P2P VPN Mesh for True Decentralization
The real magic happens when these appliances connect not through a central hub, but via a P2P VPN overlay. Tools like WireGuard, combined with mesh extensions (or protocols inspired by Tailscale, ZeroTier, or even more decentralized designs), create a private, self-healing network.
Zero-trust by design: Every peer authenticates mutually; traffic never traverses untrusted intermediaries.
Resilience against disruption: If one site goes offline, agents reroute dynamically—perfect for distributed teams, branch offices, or supply-chain partners.
Low-latency collaboration: Agents share insights, delegate subtasks, or federate learning without funneling everything to a distant data center.
Privacy-first data flows: Sensitive enterprise data stays within the mesh; no mandatory upload to third-party clouds.
Imagine a manufacturing firm where agents on factory-floor appliances monitor equipment, predict failures, and coordinate with logistics agents at warehouses—all over a private P2P tunnel. Or a financial services org where compliance agents cross-check transactions across global branches without exposing raw data externally.
Practical Building Blocks (2026 Edition)
Prototyping this today is surprisingly accessible:
Hardware base: Start with something like an Intel NUC, NVIDIA Jetson, or AMD-based mini-PC with AI accelerators. Scale to rack-mountable units for production.
OS and runtime: Lightweight, secure Linux distro (Ubuntu Core, Fedora IoT) running containerized agents via Docker or Podman.
Agent frameworks: LangGraph, CrewAI, or AutoGen for orchestration; Ollama or similar for local LLMs.
P2P networking: WireGuard + mesh tools, or emerging decentralized options that handle NAT traversal and discovery automatically.
Management layer: Simple OTA updates, remote attestation for trust, and observability via Prometheus/Grafana.
Challenges exist—peer discovery in complex networks, power/thermal management, and ensuring agents don’t spiral into unintended behaviors—but these are solvable with good engineering, much like early SDN or zero-trust gateways overcame similar hurdles.
The Bigger Picture: Reclaiming Control in the Agent Era
As agentic AI becomes table stakes for enterprises, the question isn’t “Will we use AI agents?” but “Who controls them?” Centralization trades convenience for vulnerability. A hardware-first, P2P approach flips the script: intelligence at the edge, connectivity without intermediaries, and sovereignty over data and decisions.
This isn’t fringe futurism—it’s a logical extension of trends in edge AI, decentralized networking, and zero-trust architecture. The pieces exist today; what’s missing is widespread recognition that dedicated hardware + P2P can deliver enterprise-grade agents without the cloud tax or trust issues.
If you’re building in this space or just thinking aloud like I am, the time to experiment is now. The future of enterprise AI might not live in hyperscaler datacenters—it might sit quietly on a shelf in your wiring closet, talking securely to its peers across the organization.
Gemini 3.1 This model is promising. It just came out today. My only complaint, so far, is how God-awful slow it is. That could be because it’s the first day. I don’t know yet.
Claude 4.6 This used to be my go-to LLM, but it seems…different. Like it got NERFed or something. Something is different about it so it’s not as much fun to use. And it just seems dumber when it comes to understanding what I want.
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